Excuses

I can be very understanding but ultimately, if you do not take control of the factors that are under your control, I see that as an excuse and yes, I do see that as a weakness in the mind. My goal in the Kung Fu class is to help you be your best – both physically and mentally and therefore I push hard to cause changes.

I want to see similar efforts from everyone. I want a team that has a similar mindset but there is a few that have not been giving your best and not even completing the assignments.

All the tiny promises, plans and commitments that you break and find excuses for paints a picture of who you are. This will eventually become a ‘trust’ issue and opportunities will pass you by. Who wants a non-worker in their team or someone that they cannot trust as their partner? You cannot ask for respect if you don’t care yourself.

Exercise:
Those that have been handing in homework get a free ride this week. All you have to do is to reply to say you read it and whether you feel the same way.
Those that have been missing assignments for whatever reasons need to fess up and catch up at least one at a time.